Long island gay bars
New York has played a major role in LGBTQ+ history and it’s no wonder there are a slew of bars that possess been beacons for the community (and prime party spots) for decades. The best queer bars in NYC range from dive bars to dance clubs, with historic spots like the Stonewall Inn anchoring them all. The West Village is a classic destination for queer nightlife, but you’ll find something exciting and welcoming in pretty much any part of the city.
You can check out the best drag shows or cabaret performances, but these gender non-conforming spaces all propose something unique, from cozy vibes and cheap drinks to high-energy dancing and brunch parties - sometimes in the same place on different days! Maybe your interests skew more trendy and urbane, or perhaps you're more of the down-and-dirty hook-up spots, the "what happens on the weekends, stays on the weekends" type — we're not here to judge! There are plenty of LGBTQ+ things to do in New York, but if it’s a bar you’re looking for, we’ve got you covered.
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Straight couple opens Elongated Island LGBTQ+ prevent to create a safe space
OCEANSIDE, Modern York -- As soon as patrons step through the doors of the Born This Way bar, better famous as BTW, co-owner Gina Wuestmann gives them a friendly greeting.
Within five minutes, she's either offering them a free shot or explaining how she and her husband opened their bar on the eve of the pandemic shutdown last year.
Wuestmann and her husband, David Wuestmann, who are a straight couple, often find themselves explaining why they decided to unwrap this safe territory for the Gay community in the Long Island hamlet of Oceanside.
David's response is always the same.
"Gina and I are allies of the community, and we both felt that this was an underserved community," he said. "There are not too many places on Long Island where people can be themselves. This was just our result in and our mission. We're here to provide space to people who yearn to be themselves."
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Gina has been in the bar business for over 30 years, and many of her loyal customers would tell her how they wanted a place where they could f
What Is The Best LGBTQ Bar On Long Island?
Nu Bar stands as a cornerstone for the Homosexual community in Long Island, proudly gay-owned and operated since 2016. This pub-style establishment offers a tidy and secure space for the local LGBTQ+ group to gather and commemorate. To enter this vibrant haven, patrons must be 21 years old with proper identification – a strict policy that ensures a safe and inclusive atmosphere. Operating seven days a week, Nu Prevent boasts a diverse schedule, from Monday to Sunday, catering to various tastes and schedules.
Notably, Fridays reach the revelry until 4 am, providing an extra dose of weekend excitement. It’s not just a bar; it’s a collective hub. Additionally, supporters can purchase Nu Bar merchandise, with a portion of the proceeds contributing to Pride For Youth, reinforcing the bar’s commitment to community welfare.
Nu Bar
47-2 Boundary Ave, Farmingdale
(516) 694-6906 – nubarli.com
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Re: Hayloft
Postby MJG196 »
Here's some more!
A neighbor had told Jimmy's mother that Jimmy had been seen dressed as a girl going into a local gay bar called The Hayloft. When his mother told this to Jimmy at home, he told her to sit at the kitchen table and linger while he left the room. When he reappeared, he was in drag. His mother later told a friend of Candy's that "I knew then... that I couldn't stop Jimmy. Candy was just too beautiful and talented." - http://www.warholstars.org/stars/candy.html
After attending Catholic schools, Kikel entered St. John?s University in Queens, NY in 1960. On the outside, he was a conventional trainee majoring in English. He united a fraternity and had a girl friend. But on weekend nights, he frequented gay bars in nearby Jackson Heights and on Long Island. It was around this time that he brought his sister (his only sibling) to a gay prevent called the Hayloft. - https://markthomaskrone.wordpress.com/c ... n-history/
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