I want to have gay sex
Tips for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men – in a secure and respectful way
To begin, I’d like to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to explore their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it’s important to comprehend that you can experiment new things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who crave to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.
Note: ‘cisgender men’ or ‘cis men’ refers to men who were assigned male at birth, based on having a penis and other biological characteristics, and identify as men too.Cis is the reverse of trans. We speak trans men morehere, andhere’s some support and counsel about navigating sex and relationshipsfor trans men and trans masculine people.
1. Be honest from the get-go that you’re curious
Whether you want to hook up with someone you’re already acquainted with (usually a gym bro, according to most porn), or you’ve been involved in a charged emoji swap on Grindr, honesty is fundamental from the beginning. Many queer people are feeling
Understanding Chemsex
Gay culture is as varied as the people in it. However, some stereotypes have stuck around for a reason — they contain a grain of truth. For example, bars and clubs have always been important parts of gay identity since they are historically the only places where it was possible to meet and mingle with other homosexual people. The queer bar scene can be a lot of fun. It also has a dark side, where unhealthy relationships with substance use can lead to problems, including addiction.
The combination of sex and substances, known as “chemsex,” is recognized in our tradition. It can be a glass of wine before a romantic evening or a shared shared to “get in the mood.” In gay culture, the combination of sex and methamphetamines (as well as poppers, which are inhalant forms of distinct kinds of nitrites), is a usual form of chemsex.
More About Methamphetamine Use
Methamphetamine, also called “Tina,” is a substance that can enclose chemicals like rubbing alcohol and lye. People smoke, inject or snort meth. Some of the common signs of meth use are sweating, enlarged pupils, extremely fast pulse, dizziness, racing thoughts and talkativeness. People who use meth may
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"This was my first (and only) time a guy had gone down on me. He got naked and offered to go further. I told him I could try but only with protection. He came support with condoms, and I tried but couldn't stay up. He asked if he could experiment, and at this point I just felt I was all in anyway, so I was down.
It was an interesting experience. I was taller and physically bigger and had never been