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Can straight people go to gay bars

Thread: Ladies - Direct men in gay bars, more attractive or no?

  • 2014-09-11, 07:28 PM#1

    Herald of the Titans

    Ladies - Unbent men in gay bars, more attractive or no?

    Simple question. I'm curious if women who met a straight guy in a gay exclude would find him more attractive than usual due to how comfortable he is with himself, or less attractive?

    Last edited by Alcsaar; 2014-09-11 at 07:30 PM.

  • 2014-09-11, 07:41 PM#2

    The Unstoppable Force

    I'm stuck on the whole idea of straight people going to gay bars to connect up. That's like vegan speed dating at a BBQ.

    "You six-piece Chicken McNobody."

    Originally Posted by RICH816

    You are a legend thats why.

  • 2014-09-11, 07:41 PM#3

    Originally Posted by Tradewind

    I'm stuck on the whole idea of vertical people going to queer bars to hook up. That's like vegan speed dating at a BBQ.

    Kinda defeats the point of a gay bar doesn't it?

  • 2014-09-11, 07:42 PM#4

    Please Keep Out of Gay Bars and Clubs

    I thought this was interesting read: http://www.independent.co.uk/opinio...ZAN7fY13xnotVT7q0DZAWB506BnVx&expires_in=4343


    If you go to any of the "gay villages" of London, Manchester or Edinburgh on a Saturday night, you will, as you would expect, see lots of homosexuals. In London, there is the traditional trolling up and down Old Compton Avenue, going from Manto's to Rupert Avenue to the Yard to the Village to Escape and, finally, to Heaven, saying witheringly in every single one: "God, what a dump – it's like Leeds in here."
    But along with those, as you make your unsteady way from bar to prevent, you will observe plenty of unbent people, and particularly straight girls, out on a hen night or a birthday jaunt, tinsel on their heads and their eyes round as saucers at every queenly queen or Muscle Mary. Some possess co-opted a long-suffering gay friend for the occasion; others just go into the gay bars fearlessly. It's a substantial presence, and on the whole people put up with it.
    "Putting up with it" is a impartial description of the situation, and in Manchester, the queer clubs and bars have more or less

    Gays: Are You Annoyed by Straights in Gay Bars?

    HeyHomie1

    I was at a gay block last Sunday morning (Sunday Brunch With a Drag Queen = perfect Mother’s Day gift!), and the crowd seemed to be about 3:1 gay to linear. I imagine that if I had been there on Saturday night, things would have been considerably different.

    I (a straight) contain had my share of joy in gay bars (Oz in New Orleans is a hoot), and as long as I kept ordering drinks no one seemed to mind.

    Do gays become annoyed at straights hanging out in gay bars?

    Kimmy_Gibbler2

    HeyHomie:

    I was at a gay bar last Sunday morning (Sunday Brunch With a Drag Queen = perfect Mother’s Day gift!), and the crowd seemed to be about 3:1 gay to straight. I fantasize that if I had been there on Saturday night, things would have been considerably different.

    I (a straight) have had my share of fun in same-sex attracted bars (Oz in New Orleans is a hoot), and as long as I kept ordering drinks no one seemed to mind.

    Do gays get annoyed at straights hanging out in homosexual bars?

    Depends on the bar. Depends on the straight people there.

    Generally, no. If it’s a bunch of bachelorette women who are looking for some Will & Grace minst

    What straight people necessitate to know about going to lgbtq+ bars

    As a same-sex attracted person, knowing my straight friends need to come to LGBTQ+ bars and spaces fills my heart with bliss. I appreciate the accepting atmosphere that these spaces build, and I adore that my friends want to demonstrate their support of me and my community so openly in them.

    I came out just before starting university, having made superb (and very straight) friends during my time at college. I was worried they would cure me differently after I came out, or be freaked out thinking I either hated men or fancied one of them. Luckily, neither one of those age-old stereotypes came true, and actually I didn’t give them enough credit. It turned out most of them knew I was gay extended before I did.

    But recently, when I took a group of them to Soho in London for a night out, I realised even the most well-intentioned, supportive straight/cis friends can miss the identify entirely. One of my male friends came back from the bar carrying drinks and a phone number, written on a napkin. He loudly demanded to know why the bartender had thought he’d be interested because after all, he didn’t "look gay". Sigh.

    "They'd made me